Life in July
I’m shifting. Wow yesterday and today I felt like god was directly talking to me. Showing me the way. Leading me on this part of the journey. And I don’t doubt he was.
All the work I have been doing with my business partner is getting me closer and closer to what I’m here to transform. The very things that draw my attention. The questions I ponder on. The feelings I get. The conversations that light me up.
What I’m on and on about lately is connection. 13 years ago I set out with one value for my family… connection. Anything that stood between me and connection with my kids was to be inspected under a microscope. Looked at deeply. A lot of my personal shamanic work has been just this. I desired a different way of being. Apparently one of connection. One of knowing myself so confidently that I wouldn’t wish the next day to be better because I knew I was doing the work.
I’m relishing in the fruits of my labor as my daughters turn 12 and 14 this month. Life is fun! The teen years are not to be feared. Instead I have found these older years to be full circle moments. All the foundations I laid when they were younger has set us up for these more “challenging days.” And I say that in quotes because they are not.
I had someone comment on my teen reel that said a lot of my work has to do with because I homeschooled my kids and that they don’t have to face what kids who go to school do. I challenge this thought.
I have come to see that you don’t get the results I have gotten if you just live like me.
In fact how terrible to think to feel free you would have to do what another is doing. You don’t have to homeschool. You don’t have to be me or even do the things I do.
These are objective teachings. Meaning if you desire to connect with others because it has been hard to up until this point… our method works. These teachings work.
Subjective would sound like- I homeschooled my children, and I believe it helped us create a very connected relationship. It’s the only way.
Objective would be- Children tend to thrive when they feel safe, seen, accepted, and connected. (Universal truth)
That's all folks. That’s the difference. Can you spot the difference in people online? Offffff it’s eye opening. Nothing wrong with that but it will be why someone doesn’t get the results they want. The polarization will be big.
All this to say, hey, I’m checking in and I hope your July is going well too :)
XO Krystal